Friday, August 02, 2013

Challenges In Our Lives


Challenges! Life is full of them. They may take us by surprise or be ones that never seem to go away.  They may come from people we thought were allies and friends. In 2 Samuel 5:17 David came face to face with all of these when challenged by the Philistines. From this new and yet continual challenge between the Philistines and Israelites there are (at least) twelve perspective-changing facts we can learn about the challenges we personally face.

The Hebrew word translated “Philistia”  (peleshet) is the word now translated Palestine. Their existence went back before Abraham’s time. At that time the whole area was basically referred to as Canaan, but was made up of a variety of different nations or kingdoms: Amorites, Jebusites, Perizzites, Girgashites and Philistines, to name a few. Abraham and his family actually had a peaceful start with the Philistines. (Genesis 21:22-34)  Other than a dispute over water, there is no record of conflict with the Philistines until after the Israelites left 400 years of slavery in Egypt.  By that time, in order to holds their own against the powerful Egyptians, the Philistines had become quite aggressive.  As just freed slaves, the Israelites were clueless to the Philistines propensity to war. But, God knew it!   Read Exodus 13:17

God not only knows what will happen, He knows what might happen! “Might” might become a reality if we are NOT following His lead.

Challenge Fact #1: Some challenges could and should be avoided.
Avoiding the avoidable requires partnership

A lot of the challenges we face in our lives would have been avoided if we were actively partnering with Him – seeking His will and following His lead.  When faced with challenges, one of the first questions we need to ask ourselves is: “Did willfulness lead me into this?” Our perspective on a challenge changes when we know our choices are the catalyst of this challenge. If willfulness is involved, then repentance, obedience and partnership is required. Actually partnership is the required regardless the cause of the challenge. 

In Exodus 13, willfulness wasn’t involved, but willingness was. They had to willingly follow as God routed the Israelites around Philistia to avoid war.  He knew that these former slaves were physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually, skillfully, and militarily unprepared to handle the challenge.  He knows our state of preparedness as well.  Like the Israelites, we don’t know what we don’t know, even about ourselves let alone what others or Satan can or plan on doing, but God does.

Challenge Fact #2: Some challenges are God’s way of leading us around
bigger challenges that He knows we are not equipped to handle.

Walking in partnership with God, He will send us around what He knows we are not equipped to handle – even if it means going the long way!  Going the long way around usually involves a lot of waiting. That in itself is a challenge. We hate waiting because it reminds us that we are not in control. It is an even greater challenge when we know what we want and want it NOW!  God calls it grace.  He will never let us settle for shortcuts that short change us on grace.  We like quick; He likes complete. We like straight, yet He intentionally puts curves in our road. Grace slows us down by bending life’s road with challenges.  See Ecclesiastes 7:13,14.

Challenge Fact #3: God is not in as big a hurry to remove challenges as we are.

He always moves at the speed and direction of grace.  It requires trusting Him.  As long as He permits the challenge, we can be assured that He is not done using them for our good, His glory and grace that benefits more than just us.


Challenge Fact #4: He will not remove one challenge 
if it creates a bigger one.

God knows our current maturity, abilities and limitations. As a loving Father, He will move at the pace of grace that stretches us, but does not devastate us. Timing challenges require trust.  His pace may mean missing a greater threat to our well-being. Our pace may mean missing a greater discovery that redefines our lives. 

Challenge Fact #5: If God allows a challenge in your life, 
He knows that He has also provided the means to endure it victoriously.


These challenges show us (and others) what we know about who God truly is and release the fragrance of glory and grace in an otherwise stinky situation.  This grace is accessed only through partnering with God.   However, if, even in partnership, you do not have the means to triumphantly endure it, He will not allow it.  (This is why judging others who fall for something we are not tempted to do is so foolish. God knows we are too weak to even be tempted in that regards.)

There are several other aspect of grace as to why God may not immediately remove all the challenges.  Read Judges 3:1-4.

Challenge Fact #6: Challenges He allows keep us armed and alert.

God left the challenges to keep them battle ready and savvy. He avoided war by leading them around the challenge when they were not ready, but kept the challenge when they were.  His intent was to keep them ready. God does the same with the challenging people, needs and situations that He allows in our lives. They keep us spiritually on our toes. They keep us engaged. We love easy, but easy can quickly make us spiritually lazy.  When things are “manageable” we are quick to let down our guard and lay down our armor.  Read 1 Peter 5:8; Ephesians 6:10-18

We need to put on the full armor of God that He provides, not counterfeit versions that make us vulnerable in every challenge: a helmet of false security, a breastplate of self-righteouness, and combat boots imbedded not with the Gospel of grace, but with power and control to offset fear and inadequacies.

Challenge Fact #7: Challenges He allows keep us dependent on Him.

According to Judges 3:4, another reason why God left challenges was to test their commitment, willingness, and dependency. If our partnership is not solid, it doesn’t take much for us to coast into self-reliance and independence. Too many have foxhole faith and good time partnership with God. It is challenges that show us how real and solid our partnership with God truly is.


Challenge Fact #8: Challenges He allows always have a purifying purpose.

A goldsmith or silversmith subjects ore to refining fire to burn away the worthless and bring out the valuable.  That is the intent in the challenges that God in His wisdom, love and grace chooses to leave in our lives.  They are the surgical instruments of grace in the Great Physicians hands. (See Isaiah 48:10 and 1 Peter 1:6-9.) God not only wants the best for us, but He wants us to be the best: perfect, complete, lacking nothing. A silversmith was asked how he knew when the refining process had achieved his desired goal.  His response was “I can see myself in the silver.”  That is what the Lord is trying to do through the challenges in our lives – make our lives a reflection of Him!

The Lord knows this is neither easy nor enjoyable. Paul called the constant annoying challenge he faced a “thorn in the flesh.” He asked again and again and again that it be removed, but God said “No!”  (2 Corinthians 12:7-9)

The common understanding is that this “thorn” was from Satan.  However, the purpose of this “thorn” or challenge was to keep Paul from exalting himself, keep him humble and dependent on God, and fortify his commitment, willingness and dependency.  These are all things Satan does NOT want.  He wants us to be self-exalting and working against God, thus, would NOT subject us to “thorns” that keep us from doing just that. If anything, it was a warning to NOT be like Satan, motivated by pride. This “thorn” was an aggellos satan. This is the only time the Hebrew word “satan” is used in the New Testament. It means adversary or accuser. Aggellos is a reminder or message.  It was an “accusing reminder” to Paul of his limitations and powerlessness that kolaphizei. Translated “to torment me” simply means “to rap with the fist or knuckles to get attention.” This thorn, this challenge, was a constant smack on the back of his head to remember: YOU NEED GOD!

Challenge Fact #9: Challenges constantly remind us how much 
we continually need God.

We can and should ask that this challenge be removed. But if He says “No” or “Not yet,” we have to trust Him that He is not done using it in our lives or the lives of others.  If He says, “No,” we too can know that His grace is sufficient.  We often do not know the fullness of His grace until we go through relentless challenges.

Challenge Fact #10: Challenges increase our awareness and 
understanding of grace.

When the Israelites walked in partnership with Him, they accessed the incredible grace of God. They were victorious, often on a miraculous level. But when they compromised their integrity, the Philistines quickly gained the upper hand. (i.e. Judges 10:6-16We only have to look at the 40 year struggle Samson had with the Philistines in Judges 13-16 and all the skirmishes Saul had with them in 1 Samuel to know that problems with them was ongoing.  1 Samuel 9:16 says that God intended Saul to “deliver My people from the hand of the Philistines.”  Saul failed to partner with God, so the challenge remained. 

Challenge Fact #11: The power of the challenge (and the challenger) over us
gains or wanes as we choose to partner with God giving Him the power instead.

Now that leadership had passed on to David, so did the challenge.

Challenge Face #12: Every challenge is an opportunity to trust and obey.

God kept giving them another opportunity to succeed. This challenge by the Philistines was David’s opportunity to choose to partner with God. (Read 2 Samuel 5:17-25 to see how he handled the challenge.)  Every challenge we face is an opportunity for us to choose to do this moment, face this challenge, in partnership with Him, go it alone or simply succumb.

There will be challenges in our lives – our Philistines. Some are much-loved family members. Some are not people at all, but situations that can quickly send us into a tailspin if we are not intentionally pursuing partnership with God. Some (but not all) are orchestrated by the demonic who are increasingly threatened by what God is doing in and through us.  It is only in partnership with God, that we access His wisdom and power in these challenges.  Like David, if we seek God’s will in the challenge, He will be there with an abundance of grace and incredible victory (even if the challenge out lives us).

Making It Personal

How do these challenges fact apply to the challenge(s) you face right now?

How do these challenge facts reinforce the need for you to partner with God through your challenge(s)?

How has this altered your perspective on your past and current challenges?